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A Letter To Me From Me

A Letter To Me From Me

  Dear Lakota, thank you; I deeply appreciate all the unending and sometimes painful work you have been doing to heal your sexuality. Not everyone else sees the steps you’ve taken or knows the weight tied to your ankles during each step. Not everyone can see and...

Masturbation Is Where I Find Myself

Masturbation Is Where I Find Myself

  Speaking my mind has always been a really hard thing to do. Not only because I feared what everyone would think every time I spoke my truth, but also because I couldn’t hear my own truth. My whole life I saw my external world as more important, more prominent...

Shedding Menstrual Shame in the Sacred Space of Bodysex

Shedding Menstrual Shame in the Sacred Space of Bodysex

I stared at my period app calendar, frustrated that either it wasn’t right or my body wasn’t. I was supposed to have my period by now, in fact I’d intentionally planned this bodysex circle so that it would be just past the heavy days. Every time I went to the bathroom...

From Mother to Daughter: Creating A Positive Puberty Together

From Mother to Daughter: Creating A Positive Puberty Together

I hadn't realized that I'd been hoping that my daughter would just grow pubic hair, love it, and never want to do anything with it independently until about a week ago. I sat at my computer reading through emails when I heard my daughter say from the bathroom, "Hey,...

I Used to Hate My Pubic Hair

I Used to Hate My Pubic Hair

Sitting on the toilet, looking at the newly found dark curly hair between my legs, I feel horrified, and disgusted. I didn't ask for these hairs, these weren't supposed to happen until I was a grown adult, what are they doing here on my 9 year old body!? Not only is...

My Current Relationship with My Body and My Orgasm

My Current Relationship with My Body and My Orgasm

How do I feel about my body? How do I feel about my orgasm? These two questions always bring my attention and focus right into the exact current moment I'm experiencing. Bringing my focus to how I feel right now in the moment serves to help me understand what my needs...

The Echos of Purpose: My Awakening as a Bodysex Leader

The Echos of Purpose: My Awakening as a Bodysex Leader

I don't believe that ones true calling or life purpose is always immediately known, but rather something that resonates subtly in the background like distant echos. Throughout life there may be persistent signs or feelings that point toward ones purpose, and over...

My First Bodysex Workshop

My First Bodysex Workshop

I’d just clicked the pay now button on a Bodysex invoice. My heart was racing, I’d really done it, I’d really committed to this event. I knew I had to do it quickly because I know how I talk myself out of things, especially if the main person benefiting is me. That...

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