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Bodysex is founded on the mission that everyone has the right to learn about human sexuality at no cost. Explore the topics below to learn more.

Guided Practices

Guided Genital Show & Tell

This guided Genital Show & Tell invites you to slow down, look closely, and get to know your own vulva without judgement or comparison. I’ll guide you through identifying your anatomy, noticing your unique shape and variation, and practicing a more curious, appreciative way of seeing your sex organ.

Guided Vulva Massage

This guided vulva massage is an invitation to explore sensation without rushing toward orgasm or any particular outcome. This practice helps build familiarity with your own pleasure, notice where sensation feels strongest or most subtle, increase blood flow and arousal, and strengthen the connection between touch, awareness, and your body’s responses. The goal is learning your body.

Vulva Anatomy & Variation

Baroque

In this style of vulva you can see a prominent clitoral hood and shaft. The inner labia span wide like wings with a thicker scalloped edging. The vaginal opening is nestled at the bottom of the inner labia almost framed by them.  

Classical

A small round pearl of clitoral glans is shown by the help of drawing up the clitoral hood. Textured, delicate almost dancing inner labia flow down from the bottom of the clitoral glans. The vaginal opening is seen here as a dark spot at the bottom of the vulva with the urethra sitting atop it. 

Gothic

A robust rounded clitoral shaft and glans is both tucked into and peeking out of the clitoral hood. The outer labia in this style are more narrow and slender. Just inside the outer lips are smaller wispy inner labia sweeping down from the clitoral hood. The urethra and vaginal opening are a bit concealed in this style.

Art Deco

A heart shaped outer labia are set to frame this vulva. A petite rounded clitoral glans is nestled within the clitoral hood here. Dainty, textured asymmetrical inner labia connect to the clitoral glans and flow downward to the bottom of the vaginal canal. Surrounded my inner labia the vaginal canal is presenting as folds upon folds. 

Modern

A larger pronounced clitoral shaft is seen atop this vulva style. The clitoral glans is also quite pronounced with wavy softly textured inner labia connecting at the bottom of the glans. Centered between the inner labia you can see the urethra and right below, the vaginal opening, a rose bud of tissue folded upon themselves.

Renaissance

Here is a luxuriously hooded clitoral shaft, draping over the clitoral glans which is tucked beneath and unseen. The clitoral hood and inner labia seamlessly connect and flow downward to the base of the vulva concealing the vaginal opening and urethra. Along the outer edge of the soft billowy inner labia is a slight texture.

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Real Vulvas, Real Variation

Vulvas are like snowflakes, no two are exactly alike. They vary widely in shape, color, size, texture, symmetry, and proportion. Seeing the natural variation between vulvas helps us become more familiar with what real anatomy looks like, and often more comfortable and appreciative of our own anatomy.

Pleasure Anatomy

What we see we understand and the more we understand our anatomy, the easier it becomes to understand our own pleasure. Explore the structures of the vulva and clitoris, where sensation is concentrated, and how different areas can contribute to pleasure and why. This section is intended to replace vague ideas and myths with clear anatomy so you can better understand your own body and responses.